How to Be Attractive

Being attractive depends a lot on how you feel, how you respond to people, and your over-all attitude.

If you feel confident and you exude a lot of positivity, then attracting people can happen naturally.

The manner in which you treat the people around you reflects your character. It has a huge impact on how you draw attention.

For example; if you treat people with kindness, compassion, and humility, there is a huge chance that you’ll attract people with the same qualities. And you’ll end up drawing the right people into you life.

And if you exude a lot of negativity, pride, anger, and resentment, you’ll end up driving people away and you’ll be disliked for your attitude. Chances are that you’ll attract a lot of negativity and you’ll find it difficult to maintain relationships.

In order to be considered as attractive and worthy of people’s attention, you have to be patient and considerate of others.

Kindness, being positive, and giving consideration to others are all attractive traits.

Here are some tips that can help you become a more attractive and beautiful person inside and out.

Be kind and considerate

It doesn’t cost a fortune to be kind and considerate of others. All it takes is a certain amount of compassion and understanding.

Choose your battles and avoid being overly reactive. Some people may get into your nerves but it is how you handle the situation that matters. Remember that being kind can spare you from a lot of troubles and complications in life.

Work on your social and communication skills

One of the most effective ways to become attractive is to develop good social graces, etiquette, and manners.

As a woman, you must learn how to act appropriately, how to talk in a sexy and attractive way, and how to deal with different personalities. Here are some examples;

Ways to improve your social skills:

  1. Be mindful about what you’re saying.
  2. Always practice sensitivity when talking to others.
  3. Listen more and talk less.
  4. Learn to apologize and be grateful to others.
  5. Learn how to say “please” as much as you can.
  6. Don’t butt in a conversation.
  7. Don’t interrupt a person when he/she is talking.
  8. Avoid making foul remarks.
  9. Give your undivided attention when a person is talking to you.
  10. Answer questions politely
Making an effort to look presentable and well-groomed all the time can make you become more attractive.

Look presentable

To become attractive, you have to look presentable and pleasing to the eyes. Improving your physical appearance is a good start coupled with gradual improvements on your personality.

Here are some tips that can help you jump-start the process;

  1. Wear appropriate clothes and choose colors that look flattering on you.
  2. Choose comfort over style; but make sure that your clothes have the right fit and allow you to move around and feel confident. Avoid clothes that are too tight or too loose.
  3. Choose clothes that accentuate your assets and conceals your imperfections.
  4. Wear the right shoes for every outfit and make sure that you’re able to walk on them with grace and confidence.
  5. Apply light make-up to brighten up your face.
  6. Work on your personal hygiene.
  7. Pick a hairstyle and hair color that looks good on you and matches your lifestyle.
  8. Don’t over accessorize.
  9. Avoid wearing strong perfume.
  10. Smile. It’s the best way to attract people and to look sexy.